The Husband
I think I've married the best husband in the world. In the last year I have seen this man handle challenge after challenge, and not be knocked down. He's been incredibly supportive and I've enjoyed watching him as a father. I feel like our relationship has grown exponentially. Andy is definitely top on my grateful list.
The Toddler
I have the sweetest, most sensitive, and funny little man living in my house. He wasn't born to me, but I count the day that he came to live with us as one of my most lucky ever. Recently, I've been watching videos from the past 18 months and reviewing old pictures - and I can't believe how much this boy has grown up. I can hardly believe that he'll be four in less than two weeks, and I can't wait to see him be a big brother. I am so grateful that I get to be his mom... and that the adoption is finally moving forward.
The Little Girl
Though things were not perfect, and did not work out, I will always be grateful for the 15 months that I had with my daughter. There were many lessons, most of them hard-earned, but I personally grew so much as a result. Our family grew, and I think she did as well. I will always try to hold on to the happier memories and moments... like watching her walk down a shoreline with Andy.
The One Yet-to-Arrive
This little boy is truly our miracle. This is my favorite ultrasound picture of him, although it is months old and he is hiding his face. Soon, too soon yet too far off, I will get to meet him face to face.
This little boy is truly our miracle. This is my favorite ultrasound picture of him, although it is months old and he is hiding his face. Soon, too soon yet too far off, I will get to meet him face to face.
The Ability to Move Forward
For a good part of this year, I felt like I was stuck in place. I didn't know how to move forward, or what constituted a good decision. Andy and I struggled considerably with the possible paths that we could take. I am thankful, this year, for moments of clarity that have allowed us to resurface and forge a new path.
For a good part of this year, I felt like I was stuck in place. I didn't know how to move forward, or what constituted a good decision. Andy and I struggled considerably with the possible paths that we could take. I am thankful, this year, for moments of clarity that have allowed us to resurface and forge a new path.
A Healthy Pregnancy
This one still seems too good to be true. When we found out about Little Bit, I was very apprehensive about my body's ability to carry him safely. We were prepared for an early birth, and were told that they hoped we would make it to 32, and then 37 weeks. We learned about how care is given to babies born as early as 26 weeks. Now I am one day away from being 34 weeks pregnant. My body is healthier than it was before I was carrying a baby. While I still hold my breath and hope that it doesn't change, I find myself giving thanks every day for this miracle. I also am so thankful for the things I had given up on knowing. I am grateful for the ability to experience pregnancy, with less worry than anticipated.
This one still seems too good to be true. When we found out about Little Bit, I was very apprehensive about my body's ability to carry him safely. We were prepared for an early birth, and were told that they hoped we would make it to 32, and then 37 weeks. We learned about how care is given to babies born as early as 26 weeks. Now I am one day away from being 34 weeks pregnant. My body is healthier than it was before I was carrying a baby. While I still hold my breath and hope that it doesn't change, I find myself giving thanks every day for this miracle. I also am so thankful for the things I had given up on knowing. I am grateful for the ability to experience pregnancy, with less worry than anticipated.
Grace and Thoughtfulness
Many family and friends have been aware of the struggles that we have faced in the past year. Our family has been the recipient of endless kindnesses and support, often from those that didn't even realize they were giving it. When we have met struggles this year, I have been amazed at how quickly they are overcome through the help of others. This year I have learned more about grace than I had in the 30+ preceding years. And so, to all of you, I am grateful. Hopefully I can someday repay the many favors I've received.
I hope this finds you all well, and that you enjoy a happy and peaceful Thanksgiving.
Many family and friends have been aware of the struggles that we have faced in the past year. Our family has been the recipient of endless kindnesses and support, often from those that didn't even realize they were giving it. When we have met struggles this year, I have been amazed at how quickly they are overcome through the help of others. This year I have learned more about grace than I had in the 30+ preceding years. And so, to all of you, I am grateful. Hopefully I can someday repay the many favors I've received.I hope this finds you all well, and that you enjoy a happy and peaceful Thanksgiving.
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